: I really want to do a triathlon, but I have such a fear of swimming in a lake! What can I do to fix this?
: Well, I don't know if we can fix your fear of open water swimming with an email, but maybe we can help!
First, you can participate in a triathlon without swimming in a lake. Many triathlons particularly the very early and late season races are indoors and use a lap pool for the swim. You could also try a duathlon where you would only participate in the running and cycling.
Now, back to the fear itself... Try to find a group or team that holds open water swims in your area. Swimming with a buddy or group could help with your fear. These groups often have someone in a kayak keeping an eye on the swimmers just to be extra safe. Make sure you talk to the group leader or coach at the open water swim so they know about your fear.
When you are out there swimming in the lake or ocean, try to stay focused on some aspect of your stroke technique. Pick something very basic like finishing your stroke or blowing air out of your nose underwater before lifting your head for a breath. This will help you to keep your focus internal and away from the fear.